Richard Charles Como

Richard C. Como died on Friday, February 21, 2025 at the age of 87. He was born in Ware, MA on July 21, 1937 to Gaston and Anita (Lussier) Como. He was educated at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Parochial Schools and Ware High School. Upon graduation, he enrolled at Babson College and graduated in 1960 with a BA/BS in Business. After college he served in the National Guard and upon discharge he was employed by Lorillard Tobacco Company. He worked for the company for 39 years, until retiring in 2000. He married Margaret A. Como (Briand) in July 1964.

He is survived by his wife, their three children, Alison (Como) Goyette m. Robert Goyette, Richard Como m. Karin (Fortin) Como and Christopher Como and 4 grandchildren, Katherine Goyette, Meredith Goyette, Benjamin Como, and Samantha Como.

Dick taught his children how to throw a baseball, how to bat, and how to throw a football. His steadfast commitment to his family is remembered with love and gratitude. He is recalled as someone who was always there for his wife and children, and as someone who showed the world that sometimes, being a dad is just about showing up. He cherished his wife of more than 60 years, with unparalleled love and pride.

Dick was always there to help with a move or to drive his daughter and her friends to the roller rink. Even at his most exhausted, he was always there to play baseball with his son after work, a sport he was delighted to pass on. He retained this ethic as a grandfather, looking forward to the birth of his first grandchild for the simple joy of taking her to McDonald's to have some fries. Dick never complained, never expected any praise, and always kept a smile on his face- he had one of those strong characters that just was, without any need for recognition. His devotion ran rivers deep for his family, even for the most unexpected of members. He cared for his daughter’s cat, Mittens, faithfully, despite never seeing himself as a cat person. Somehow, she always ended up in his lap.

Dick was affable and kind, and never shied away from hard work. He moved through life with a dedication to the community around him. Dick was active in Bedford Little League as Coach and Manager in the late 70’s and early 80’s, winning the playoffs in 1980. In 1983 he was appointed to the Bedford Board of Adjustment and served until 1991. In 1991 he was elected to Bedford Town Council and served for 9 years. Dick was a charter member of the Bedford Lions Club in 1965 and remained a lifelong member. He was also an original member of St. Elizabeth Seton Church, where he served on the finance committee and was an usher for many years. His Catholic faith guided him to focus on and demonstrate kindness and love, never judgement, above all else. He was an active participant in his church, and was always the most enthusiastic singer; he taught his grandchildren that it was ok for men to sing, express, and love.

He was jovial and fun, and always knew how to throw a good party. His cribbage skills stand out in memory; both his love of the game and his skill (for which he won a beautiful loon cribbage board as proof). Even when competing, personable and good-hearted, and never said an unkind thing about anyone. Emmy and Sam take their social nature from him; Rick, like his father, never says anything bad about anyone. Ben, Chris, and Katie will always show up and work without complaint. Alison got his athleticism, his crappy eyesight, and his hand-eye coordination (which most of the youngest generation missed out on). Dick loved his family for the people they are, showed his care through action, and spent a loyal lifetime uplifting his community. He kept his head up through it all, and loved his wife with a dedication even beyond words. He will be deeply missed by all, including his furry friend, Harry.

Visitation will be held at St. Elizabeth Seton Church in Bedford, NH on March 10th from 9am-11am, with a mass held immediately after. Following the mass, there will be a brief service at the Mount Calvary Mausoleum 474 Goffstown Rd, Manchester, NH 03102. Family and friends are invited to attend. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Bedford Lions Club, PO Box 10083 Bedford, NH 03110.